Friday, November 25, 2011

Relationships - Love or Lust

I'm honestly big about relationships.. Love being in them. Nothing is better then finding that one person you can connect with, and share the beautiful aspects of life with.

I've been missing that LOVE feeling. Not that I'm desperately looking for it, but I also hate wasting my time, along with the female that I'm seeing, if I know that it's not filling that place in my heart that I'm looking for (even though we must relax and see where it goes.. sometimes you can just feel its not going anywhere!)
The funny thing about how shit works is that someone will come in your life when you're NOT looking for them. Thats the best. It's like the higher power above knew it was coming, knew when it will happen and how, and watched you at your most weakest point when you needed them. But in that moment, you needed to go through that so you can appreciate what the higher power was going to give you later! This can be related to a lot of things other then relationships too - Jobs, Family, Money, w.e.

We need to learn the difference between LOVE and LUST. There is a big difference. Some people can make themselves believe they're in love if they keep verbally saying things that the body or mind does not feel. They can make their man/woman feel like that also. It can turn into something that it shouldn't be, especially if the pace of it is fast as all hell! Slow the hell down and get to know who you are dealing with. GET TO FALL IN LOVE WITH THE PERSON. Give each other time to notice some flaws and learn to accept it now, before you fall in love then you see flaws you didn't think existed due to quickly throwing the word LOVE around. You are in deep lust.

If you're going through something in this very moment, just continue to be happy that you're still alive. Believe that someone will come for you. Be patient (I hate when people say this shit!!!!) BE PATIENT THOUGH. The two of you are making your way towards each other as I write and you read.

Im not Dr. Phil, Oprah, or Professor Snape, simply just a regular dude with experiences.

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